Malemba a Pemphero la Apache lachikwati
Pemphero la Apache Lachisanu ndilo liwu lodziwika bwino lachipembedzo lomwe lingagwiritsidwe ntchito pokondweretsa maukwati ndi malonjezano atsopano. Zauzimu, zakuya, ndi zochokera pansi pamtima, awa ndiwo mau a Pemphero la Apache:
- Tsopano simudzagwa mvula,
Aliyense wa inu adzakhala pogona kwa wina.Tsopano simudzamva kuzizira,
Pakuti aliyense wa inu adzakhala wachikondi kwa wina.Tsopano palibe kusungulumwa,
Aliyense wa inu adzakhala mnzanu kwa wina.Tsopano inu ndinu matupi awiri,
Koma pali moyo umodzi pamaso panu.Pita tsopano ku malo ako okhala,
Kulowa m'masiku a umodzi wanu.
Ndipo mulole masiku anu akhale abwino ndi otalika pa dziko lapansi.
~ Apache Wedding Prayer Blessing
Nthawi ndi Mmene Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Madalitso Akwati a Apache
Anthu okwatirana osiyana-siyana, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi omwe sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu angapeze mau a dalitso kukhala olimbikitsa. Palibe chosowa chopempha mulungu kapena munthu wakumwamba kuti awonjezere kulondola kwa lumbiro lomwe anthu awiri amapanga kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Madalitsowa ndi ntchito yabwino yofotokozera mphoto yopereka kwa munthu wina muukwati ndikufotokozera kuti mgwirizanowu upereka malo ogona, kutentha, ubale, ndi moyo wagawo.
Ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito dalitso la Apache palokha kapena ngati gawo lakupempha kwa nthawi yaitali. Ngati mukugwira ntchito ndi mtsogoleri yemwe simudziwa, sindikizaniko ndikupatseni izo musanayambe mwambo wanu.
Wogwira ntchito angathe kuthetsa mawu ogwira mtimawa kuti agwiritse ntchito payekha, kuti alengeze pakati pa malumbiro kapena kuti azimalize mwambowu monga chomaliza. Mawu a pemphero la Apache angathenso kutsata kapena kutsatira chilankhulo chimene awiriwo amalemba ndikudziwerengera okha monga gawo la mwambo wawo wokhazikika.
Chilankhulo cha madalitso achikwati cha Apache ndi chithunzi chomwe chimatonthoza ndi kukhala chete kwa nyumba, mwachitsanzo, "malo okhalamo" omwe adzateteze ndikugawana ndi anthu awiri pamodzi.
Kodi Ndi Zenizeni Kapena Ndizo Zobisika?
Pemphero la Apache ndilo gawo la zochitika zakale zotchedwa fakelore. Ngakhale kuti mawu enieniwo ndi enieni ndipo agwiritsidwa ntchito kusindikiza malumbiro a ukwati ndi kubwerezedwa pa zowonjezereka zowonjezera malonjezano, mapulogalamu a pemphero ali ndi zambiri zogwirizana ndi Achimereka a ku Apache monga ovina a Apache a Marseille.
Malingana ndi Economist , "Pempherolo palokha silikugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha Apache (pempheroli linapangidwa kuti liwonetse filimu ya Hollywood yotchedwa Broken Arrow )." Firimuyi, yomwe imadera kumadzulo kumayiko achimerika, inadza pa masewero a kanema m'chaka cha 1950 ndipo Jimmy Stewart, Jeff Chandler ndi Debra Paget anali ndi nyenyezi. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, Wikipedia imalengeza kuti Chipangano Chatsopano cha Maukwati a Apache ku buku loyamba la Blood Brother, lolembedwa ndi Elliott Arnold mu 1947.
Mawu Oyenera Kukumbukira
Madalitso a Ukwati A Apache ndi okondedwa kwambiri ndi maanja omwe anakwatirana kapena kukonzanso malonjezo awo. Monga momwemo, ganizirani kulandira kopi, kuikonza, ndikuikweza pamalo olemekezeka mnyumba mwanu. Kukamba za izo, makamaka panthawi yamavuto, zikhoza kutsindika madalitso enieni a ukwati.