Ndikudabwa ngati mukuchita zabwino, pankhani ya komwe mukupita kukwatira ukwati ? Elise Mac Adam ndi mlembi wa Chinachake Chatsopano: Chidziwitso cha Ukwati kwa Ophwanya malamulo, Otsatira Chikhalidwe, ndi Aliyense Wopakati . Ndizochitika zamakono pa khalidwe labwino laukwati lomwe lingathandize okwatirana ndikukonzekera tsiku lalikulu.
"Miss Miss Manners" anaima ndi kumudziwitsa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito zovuta zapakati pa ukwati ndi chisomo.
Kodi ndingayitane anthu kumalo osambitsa bwenzi ngati sindiwaitanira ku ukwati wanga?
Musamaitane wina aliyense kumsamba wanu yemwe sangakhale pa mndandanda wa alendo. (Zotsatira za ndondomekoyi ndizosavuta, mwachitsanzo, maofesi apanyumba apanyumba omwe sangayitanidwe nawo ku ukwatiwo) Chifukwa cha ichi ndi chakuti popeza mvula imatenga kuti alendo abwere mphatso, amawoneka funsani anthu ku phwandolo koma asawapangitse kuti asadulidwe. Mukhoza kukhala ndi kusintha pang'ono ngati mutakhala ndi phwando lakumbuyo kwanu kapena kumalo osungirako phwando kumbuyo kwanu kunyumba komwe mukuitanira onse odzaza alendo, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti mudzakhala nawo pakhomo pakhomo mumatumizira maitanidwe osamba.
Ndikufuna ukwati wanga ukhale wachikulire. Kodi ndingatani kuti anthu asabweretse ana awo?
Yankho lalifupi ndi lakuti: Musaitane ana.
Musaike mayina awo paitanidwe kapena kulemba "ndi banja" pa envelopu. Muyeneranso kukonzekera alendo omwe ali ndi ana kuti atumize kudandaula kwawo. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu azitha kuyenda popanda ana awo, kapena kudalira ana osasamalidwa (ngati atenga anawo paulendowu koma akukonzekera kuti achoke ku hotelo pa ukwati ndi phwando).
Dziwani kuti monga momwe munasankhira kuti simukufuna kukhala ndi ana paukwati wanu, iwo ayenera kuganiza kuti sangathe kupezeka, ndipo sipangakhale zovuta za izo mbali iliyonse.
Kodi tingathe kulembetsa mphatso ngati tili ndi ukwati wopita?
Kaya mukulankhula kapena muli ndi ukwati wopita, mungathe kulembetsa mphatso. Chimene simukuyenera kuchita pazochitika zonsezi ndizofuna mphatso, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kusindikiza chidziwitso chanu cholembetsa pa mayitanidwe anu achikwati. Pankhani ya kulongosola, anthu angakhale kapena sakufuna kupereka mphatso zaukwati, kotero simungathe kuwayang'ana momwe mungathere ngati mutakhala ndi ukwati wokwanira.
Ndani amalipira zochitika zowona ukwati ndi phwando pomwe akupita kukwatirana?
Alendo sayenera kudzipiritsa okha pa chochitika chilichonse chozungulira ukwati. Choncho, ngakhale kuti ali ndi udindo woyendetsa ndalama zoyendayenda komanso malo ogona, sayenera kulipira chakudya chawo pa phwando laukwati kapena kukambirana chakudya chamadzulo, ngati pali chimodzi. Chochitika chirichonse choitanidwa chiyenera kusamaliridwa kwa iwo. Koma, ngati alendo amapatsidwa mndandanda wa zochitika zapakhomo zomwe angathe kudya pakati pa zochitika zomwe zakonzedweratu, amadzipiritsa okha.
Chitsogozo chachikulu chiyenera kukhala: ngati apemphedwa kuchita chinachake, sayenera kulipira.
Ndili ndi ukwati wopita kumalo ndipo phwando likuyandikira pafupi masabata angapo pambuyo pake. Kodi ndikuitanira aliyense kuzochitika zonsezi?
Chinsinsi choti musataye malingaliro anu ndi kuitanira anthu ku mwambo womwe mukufuna kuti awonepo. Kumbiranani maitanidwe osiyana a ukwati ndi phwando kumene akupita ndikubwera ndi mndandanda wosiyana wa alendo pazochitika zonsezi. Ngakhale pali zambiri zomwe zikupezeka m'mndandanda umenewo, muyenera kuwasiyanitsa. Izi zidzasunga zonse ndikuzikonzekera bwino ndipo zidzakuthandizani kusunga ndalama chifukwa mulibe mwayi woti mutha kupita kumalo okwatirana ngati mukuitana anthu ambiri omwe mungakhale nawo poyamba. malo.
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