Kwa makolo ambiri, palibe chokoma kusiyana ndi nthawi yachisangalalo cha banja, ndipo palibenso china chosangalatsa kusiyana ndi chopanikizika. Zolinga ndi ana ang'ono zikhoza kukhala zochepa pakati pa abale ndi alongo, ana aang'ono osokonezeka, komanso achinyamata ovutika. Koma kuyenda ndi ana a ku koleji ndi achinyamata amakhala ndi mavuto awo. Monga makolo achikulire, simungathe kukhala ndi cholinga chokhazikitsa ndondomeko yanu monga momwe munachitira kale komanso kumalo oyandikana nawo a ulendo wa banja, ndi zophweka kuti kusamvetsetsana ndi kukhumudwa kukule.
Zambiri za ululu ndi zosasangalatsa zingapewe ndi kukambirana momveka bwino banja lisanayambike. Nazi zinthu zomwe muyenera kuwongolera musanatuluke kuti mukhale ndi banja losangalatsa.
Kambiranani Mwachangu Amene Akulipira Chiyani
Maholide ndi okwera mtengo ndipo zina zowonjezera zingawonjezere. Banja lirilonse liri ndi ndondomeko yawo yokhayokha koma kukonzekera yemwe ali ndi udindo woyendetsa ulendo, malo ogona, ndi chakudya kudzathandiza kuthetsa kusamvetsetsana. Kodi aliyense akulipira chipinda chake? Mwachitsanzo, ngati achinyamata kapena achinyamata akupita ku bar, kodi akuyembekezerapo kulipira tebulo lawo? Nanga bwanji zochitika zilizonse paulendowu? Ndani akulipira matikiti ku phwando kapena chakudya pachitika?
Lankhulani za usiku watha ndi kumayambiriro kwamawa
Pakhomo la maholide, ana okalamba ndi makolo awo angawoneke kukhala m'madera osiyanasiyana. Mbadwo wachinyamata nthawi zambiri amakhala mochedwa ndikuyang'ana kadzutsa, maola ambiri makolo awo atakhala nawo.
Ngakhale kuti izi zingagwire ntchito bwino panyumba, pamene mukuyenda zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri. Ngati mamembala ena ali mmwamba ndipo ali okonzeka kupita mofulumira ndipo ena akugona, makangano angabwere. Achinyamata achikulire omwe akugwira ntchito mwakhama chaka chonse akhoza kuona nthawi yawo ya tchuthi kukhala mwayi wogona tulo ndikubwerera kuntchito yawo.
Nkhani zina zisanachitike tchuthi zingathandize kupewa makolo kusuta pamene akudikirira ana awo kuti adzuke ndi kuyamba tsikulo.
Kambiranani za Zimene Mudzachita Pamodzi Ndi Pakati
Ana akakhala aang'ono, amafuna kukhala ndi inu nthawi iliyonse ya tchuthi. Masiku amenewo akhoza kutha koma ndikofunikira kuti mabanja akhale ndi mgwirizano pa zomwe adzachita palimodzi komanso pamene apita njira zawo zosiyana. Kodi nonse mumakonda kuona sightsee? Kodi achibale ena amadya chakudya cham'mawa? Kodi tsiku lonse ndilophatikiza nthawi komanso likuyenera kusungidwa? Kodi iyi ndi sabata imodzi pachaka inu nonse mumakhala pamodzi ndipo mukuyembekeza kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito zochulukirapo zambiri ngati n'kotheka? Kodi banja lanu likukonzekera kudya chakudya chilichonse ndikuchita zinthu zonse pamodzi?
Konzani Ulendowu Pamodzi
Chigwirizano cha banja potsata kumeneko ndi njira yabwino yogula malonda kuchokera kwa apaulendo onse. Komanso, zomwe makolo amaganiza kuti ndizo "zosangalatsa" kwa ana awo akuluakulu, ndikukonzekera mosagwirizana, akhoza kugwa pansi ndikukhala ulendo wokwera mtengo komanso wokhumudwitsa. Masiku akuti kuyimba ndi kutha ndipo ana omwe akukula akukonzekera nthawi yanu palimodzi, nthawi yosangalatsa idzakhalanso.