Chilankhulo cha Amuna Amene Mungagwiritse Ntchito Powonjezera Vow
Kodi mumapeza bwanji mau oti muwonetse chikondi chanu chokhazikika kwa mnzanuyo mukakonza malonjezo anu pagulu? Kuyanjanitsa chilankhulo kungakhale kokoma, kumverera, kovuta komanso kokondweretsa pamadera.
Pa malonjezano atsopano, mawu angaperekedwe ndi wogwira ntchito, kaya akhale membala wa atsogoleri achipembedzo kapena wachibale kapena bwenzi la banja. Kwa ena, awiriwa amapereka zawo. Popeza lonjezo lokonzekera silololedwa mwalamulo, chilankhulochi chikhoza kusonyeza umunthu wanu ndi kulenga.
Palibe mawu enieni omwe amafunikira pa nthawi yowonjezera lumbiro ndipo muli omasulira kuti mutchulidwe chinenerochi - komanso mwambowu - monga mukukondera.
Mmene Mungayambe Kulemba Vow Yanu Kukonzanso
Patula nthawi yokhala chete ndi maganizo anu. Ngati simukukhala pakhomo, pitani ku laibulale yanu yapafupi kapena malo ogulitsira khofi ndi laputopu kapena cholembera ndi pedi. Mawuwo sangabwere pomwepo, koma pali njira zowathandiza kuti ayambe kuyenda. Mawu oti zowonjezera chiwongoladzanja akhoza kukhala aatali kapena achifupi monga momwe okwatirana amakondera.
Ganiziraninso zaka zomwe mwakhala ndikukhala ndi wina ndi mzake. Kodi mfundo zazikuluzikulu ndi ziti zomwe zinatanthauza kwambiri kwa inu? Mungayesere kuvomereza ana anu ndi zina zomwe zikuchitika m'banja lanu, komanso kutchula zochitika zazikulu komanso kupambana kwanu.
Phindu lina lothandiza ndikupanga mndandanda, kuyambira chaka chomwe mwakumana nacho poyamba. Osati aliyense pamsonkhano wanu akhoza kudziwa nkhaniyi, ndipo iyi ndi nthawi yabwino yogawana.
Perekani zambiri: Ndinali ndi zaka zingati? Ndi nthawi yanji yomwe inali? Kodi munagwiritsa ntchito bwanji nthawiyi pamodzi? Kodi makonda anu oyambirira anali chiyani? Kodi mumakumbukira zomwe munali kuvala zonse ndipo munapita kuti tsiku lanu loyamba? Choyamba chinakukokerani inu kwa mnzanu?
Kenaka pitirizani kupita ku chinthu chotsatira chomwe mwafika palimodzi.
Kodi pali nkhani yowopsya kapena yochititsa mantha yomwe imakamba za nthawi yomwe mwakhala mukukambirana? Ngati mupitiriza kufotokozera mwachidule, mumasunga omvera anu.
Chilankhulidwe chokonzekera kwanu chiyenera kusonyeza moyo umene mwakhala nawo limodzi ndi malingaliro anu kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndibwino kuti muzimva mwachikondi, ngakhale mushy, ngati ndi momwe mumamvera ndi mnzanuyo.
Pezani Mphamvu kuchokera ku Mawu Ena
Mawu anu sayenera kukhala oyambirira malinga ngati akuchokera pansi pamtima. Kudzudzula kumawonjezeka, m'mabuku a ndakatulo achikondi komanso otchuka ndi omveka bwino ndemanga pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana zomwe zingasonyeze kumverera kwanu:
- Chikondi ndi chiyani?
- Pa Ukwati
- Osangalala Amati ...
- Kupsompsona
- Chikondi Choyamba
- Mawu Achikondi
- Chikondi ndi Chikondi
Ngati simukupeza mawu ofotokozera pazolembedwazo, mwinamwake samagwira kwenikweni mzimu wa banja lanu. Amuna omwe amakhala kuseka angapeze malingaliro pamabuku amenewa. Mwina kunena za chisangalalo cha zomwe mumakonda kuchita zomwe mumakonda kuchita kapena kusangulutsa kungabweretse mawu anu kumoyo. Mwachitsanzo, maanja amene akhala akuyendera limodzi padziko lapansi angafune kuphatikizapo ndemanga pa ulendo .
Komanso Onaninso:
Mmene Mungalembe ndi Kupereka Mkwati Wapamwamba Wachikwati
Chitsanzo Chobwezeretsa Chinenero
Ngati mutapitiriza kukonza mawu anu pazokambirana, mungapeze zothandiza kugwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo ichi monga maziko.
Ikani zokhazokha momwe mukuonera.
[onetsani dzina loyambani],
Ndikuima kachiwiri pamaso panu
Kukonzanso malonjezo athu a ukwati.
Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikhalebe wolimba m'chikondi changa,
Modzichepetsa m'chisamaliro changa,
Ndipo osagwedezeka mu chikhulupiliro changa.
M'dzina la onse omwe takhala nawo pamodzi
Ndipo tonsefe tidzakhala,
Ndikukupatsani dzanja langa
Ndipo mtima wanga
Monga mnzanu, wokondedwa wanu, ndi mnzanu wa moyo wanu.
Pambuyo pa Kubwezeretsa Vow
Mabanja ena amatenga mawu omwe adayankhula ndi kuwamasulira kukhala otsala pambuyo pake. Mndandandawo ukhoza kulembedwa pamapepala abwino, oikidwa muzokongoletsera, ndikunyengerera kunyumba kwanu pamalo olemekezeka.