Kumbukirani Kuyang'ana Kumwa Kwanu ...
Chimodzi mwa mantha omwe anthu ambiri amawopa - makamaka amayi omwe ali paulendo - ndikuti angakhale tsiku logwiriridwa kunja. Ine ndikudandaula ndithu zedi zomwe zingandichitikire ine ndisanachoke kuti ndiyende. Mwamwayi, izi ndizochitika zosayembekezereka kwambiri, koma ndi chinthu choyenera kuti chidziwe ndikusamala pamene mukuyenda.
Pemphani kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza mankhwala opatsirana pogonana, momwe mungawazindikire, ndi choti muchite ngati mukuganiza kuti mwaledzeredwa.
Kodi Roofies ndi chiyani?
Rohypnol (dzina la Flunitrazepam), kapena "roofie", ndi benzodiazapine, mapiritsi a mankhwala omwe ali ngati Valium, koma mphamvu khumi. Zili zoletsedwa ku United States kuyambira 1996.
Roofies imabwera ndi mapiritsi a 0.5 mg kapena 1.0 mg, omwe amatha kukhala osakaniza. Mapiritsi akale amawoneka ngati aspirin ndipo amawononga kulikonse kuchokera $ 1.00 mpaka $ 5.00; mapiritsi atsopano, omwe ali ndi utoto wabuluu, ali a azitona, kotero kuti mosavuta kuzindikira.
Kodi kumapangitsa chiyani?
Zimayambitsa chifukwa cha kusokoneza bongo, kumverera moledzera kwambiri, ndi amnesia. Pa chifukwa chimenechi, Rohypnol kawirikawiri ndi mankhwala osankhidwa omwe anthu akuyang'ana kuchita chiwerewere, kutchula dzina, "mankhwala operekera chiwerewere". Sizidziwike mosavuta ngati mutayiritsa mapiritsi mu zakumwa za wina, kotero iyi ndiyo njira yogwiritsiridwa ntchito.
Mutatha kumwa mankhwalawa, zotsatira zimayamba kuwombera pambuyo pozungulira mphindi 20 kapena 30. Muyamba kumverera ngati kuti mwaledzera, mukuvutika kulankhula kapena kusunthira, ndipo pamapeto pake mukhoza kutuluka.
Zotsatira zazikulu za mankhwalawa zimachitika maola awiri mutatha kumeza, ndipo zotsatira zingathe kukhalapo kwa maola khumi ndi awiri.
Ngakhale ngati simukupita, mudzapeza kuti simukumbukira chilichonse chimene chinachitika mukakhala pansi pa mankhwalawa. Kuphatikizapo kukupangitsani kuvutika ndi chiwawa cha kugonana, roofies ikhoza kuchititsanso kugwidwa, kutentha, chiwindi, komanso imfa kuchokera ku kupuma kwa maganizo.
Kodi Ndingadziteteze Bwanji?
Mwamwayi, palibe chifukwa chokhalira wopanda chiyembekezo. Pali zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti muteteze zakumwa zanu. Nazi zina mwazomwe timapereka apaulendo omwe akuwopa kuyang'anizana ndi izi pamsewu.
Yang'anani Kuti Musinthe Kusintha
Mukadzasungunuka mowa, umadzipukutira ndi kulawa kowawa. Ngati chakumwa chanu mwadzidzidzi chimayamba kulawa zachilendo, zosiyana, ndi / kapena zowawa, zizisiye nthawi yomweyo. Uzani munthu amene mumamukhulupirira kuti mukuganiza kuti wina akuika chinachake mu zakumwa zanu, kotero iwo akhoza kuyang'anitsitsa maso anu nthawi zonse.
Ngati muli mumsampha ndipo mumayimilira pambali pa munthu yemwe mukuganiza kuti akhoza kumwa mowa wanu, yesetsani kuwatsanulira pansi pa tebulo kapena kumbuyo kwanu, kapena kudziyerekezera kuti musadyepo popanda kulola kuti wina aliyense alowe mkamwa mwanu. Koma dziwani kuti iwo adzakuwonani kuti awononge inu kumwa mowa wanu, choncho khalani osamala mukamatsanulira.
Ichi ndi chitsimikizo chachikulu kuti winawake wakupangira zakumwa zanu. Ngati wina atenga chidwi chokwanira momwe mumamwa mowa komanso ngati simukumwa mokwanira, musiye kumwa mofulumira.
Yang'anani Kumwa Zakuluu
Mukayikidwa mu zakumwa zowala, zowonongeka zatsopano zidzasandutsa chakumwa chowala.
Ngati madzi anu kapena gin ndi tonic amasandulika buluu, lizani ndi kukhala tcheru makamaka; wina ayesera kukupwetekani. Okalamba akugwedeza sangasinthe mtundu wa zakumwa zanu, choncho musadalire njira iyi yozindikirako. Monga pamwamba, musiyeni wina adziwe zomwe zachitika.
Izi zimaperekanso njira yayikulu yotetezera: ngati mwalamula zakumwa zoyera, simungakhale zovuta, monga momwe wotsutsa sangathe kusokoneza kuti adamwa mowa wanu.
Samalani ndi Modzidzimutsa Kuledzera
Ngati mwadzidzidzi mumamva moledzera mopitirira muyezo mochepa chabe, mofulumira pemphani thandizo (makamaka osati kwa munthu wachilendo pafupi ndi inu pa bar omwe angakupatseni roofie) - mungakhale ndi maminiti pang'ono chabe khalidwe lasiyidwa. Gwiritsani bwenzi ndikuwauza nkhawa zanu - akhoza kukusungani ngati chirichonse chikuchitika.
Yang'anirani Zakumwa Zanu
Musamamwe chilichonse chimene simunatsegule kapena kuti simunachiwone kuti mutsegulidwa kapena kutsanulira. Ndikoyenera kupita ku barani ndi aliyense amene akupereka kuti akugulire zakumwa, kapena kuwayang'ana ndi zakumwa zawo kuchokera ku mpando wanu.
Musalole Chakumwa Kwa Aliyense
Zingakhale zokopa kutuluka ndi gulu la anzanu atsopano omwe mwangokumana nawo m'chipinda cha dorm, koma samalani ngati wina akupereka kuti apite kukakumwa kuti amwe. Muziyenda nawo kumtunda uko kuti muwone zakumwa zanu zakumwa, kapena mumangogula zoledzera zanu. Musamamwe chakumwa kuchokera kwa munthu amene simukudziwa ngati simukuwona kuti mutsegula kapena kutsanulira ndi bartender.
Musamamwe Mowa Wanu Osatetezedwa
Nthawi zonse penyani zakumwa zanu pamaphwando ndi mipiringidzo. Ngati musiya zakumwa zanu zosagwiritsidwa ntchito, pangani mwatsopano kuti mukhale pamtunda. Ndibwino kuti muzisunga m'manja mwanu nthawi zonse. Ngati mukufuna kupita kuchipinda, funsani mnzanu kuti ayang'ane zakumwa zanu.
Gulani Zakumwa mu Zitsulo
Ngakhale mutayendetsa mowa ndi zakumwa m'dzanja lanu, zimakhala zosavuta kuti wina agwedeze kumbuyo kwanu ndikuponya mapiritsi mu galasi yanu popanda kuzindikira. Mmalo mwake, yesani kuyika manja anu pa zakumwa zakumwa. Mwanjira imeneyo, mutha kugwira mwamphamvu thumba lanu pamwamba pa botolo, kuteteza aliyense kuyika chirichonse mkati mwake.
Pitani ndi Anzanu
Mukhale ndi bwenzi lanu kupita ku phwando kapena barani kuti muchepetse mwayi wanu wogwiritsidwa ntchito. Ngati iwo akukutengerani kwanu, iwo sadzakhala akuchoka popanda inu.
Ngati muli mumzinda watsopano ndikuyang'ana kuti mufufuze usiku, funsani mozungulira mu chipinda chodyera kuti muwone ngati wina ali wokonzeka kupita nawe. Mwina simungakhale abwenzi, koma kukhala ndi munthu akukuyang'anirani bwino kumateteza chitetezo chanu.
Sungani Mtundu Wanu Wam'manja
Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi foni yam'manja mokwanira mukatuluka usiku. Pezani chifukwa chomwe timalimbikitsira kuyendayenda ndi foni yosatsegulidwa - ndizofunikira makamaka mu izi. Mutha kuyitanira apolisi kapena kulumpha pa Intaneti kuti mumve nawo anzanu pa Facebook ngati muli m'mavuto.
Pamwamba pa izo, mukhoza kufufuza njira yomwe mungafunikire kuti mubwerere ku hostel yanu pa foni yanu mukafika pa bar, kotero mutha kumatsatira kunyumba ngati chinachake chikuchitika ndipo mungathe ' t kumbukirani momwe mungabwererenso.
Khalani Ochenjera kwa Aliyense Wodabwitsa
Samalani anzanu, nanunso. Ngati akuwoneka moledzeretsa ndi "kunja kwa izo," iwo mwina adatsitsa mankhwala. Musawasiye okha pokhapokha mutakhala nawo nkhawa, ndipo mubwererenso ku hostel mwamsanga.
Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati ndikuganiza kuti ndadandaula?
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwakhala mukugwiriridwa, musadye, muwonetseke kapena muwonongeko umboni wina. Pitani ku chipatala kamodzi kuti mukakhale ndi umboni wa chiwawa. Kukanikiza mlandu ndi chisankho chachikulu; Ngati mwasankha kuchita zimenezi, kupita kukachipatala pambuyo poti mukugwiriridwa kukupatsani umboni.
Pezani chithandizo chothandizani kudutsa mwambo wovutawu. Ndithudi muyenera kudziwitsa anzanu omwe mumadalira, ndipo muyenera kulingalira kupeza uphungu wamaluso.
Zonsezi zinanenedwa, palibe chifukwa chokhala ndi zowonetsera pa tchuthi - kukhala ndi zakumwa ndi munthu watsopano ndi gawo lalikulu la zosangalatsa za oyendayenda ndi anthu. Ingodziwa, tsatirani ndondomeko zotchulidwa pamwambapa, ndiyeno pitirizani ndikusangalala nokha!
Nkhaniyi yasinthidwa ndi kusinthidwa ndi Lauren Juliff.