Makhalidwe a kumwera kwa chakudya ndi madyerero amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa chakudya chamadzulo, monga pamene mukukumana ndi makolo anu a okopa kwa nthawi yoyamba, maholide, poyenda ndi nthawi zonse Lamlungu. Pali njira yodabwitsa yomwe amagwiritsa ntchito poyendetsa belle. Makhalidwe ambiri amagwiranso ntchito.
Nthawi zina timagwiritsa ntchito miyambo imeneyi kumadzulo, komabe nthawi zambiri sitinganene ngati mukubweretsa tchuthi ku Applebees kapena pa chakudya cha Lamlungu.
Makhalidwe ena, monga maukwati ndi chakudya chamakondwerero, nthawi zina amakhala ovomerezeka.
Mafesholo, Tsiku ndi Tsiku Lokhazikika
- RSVP ikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuyankha kuitanidwe. Ndizolemekezeka kwambiri ku RSVP osati poyeretsa kenako kapena kunyalanyaza pempholi kwathunthu. Mukapanda RSVP, muyenera kuletsa ngati pali vuto kapena matenda.
- Onetsani nthawi, koma osati mofulumira kwambiri. Kuwonetsera mpaka phwando la chakudya chamadzulo kapena chochitika choposa 10-15 mphindi zoyambirira kumaonedwa kuti ndichabechabe.
- Alendo ayenera kupereka thandizo kuti athandize abambo, koma abambowa sayenera kulemetsa alendo awo powapempha thandizo. Alendo sayenera kulimbikitsa kuthandiza.
- Mbuye nthawi zonse amamuthandiza mkazi kumanja kwake, kaya akhale pachibwenzi kapena ayi, pamene akukhala kapena akuchoka pa mpando wake.
- Mmodzi sayenera kukhalapo mpaka mayi awo ndi akulu ena atakhala pansi.
- Nthawi zonse funsani zinthu patebulo, musafunse. "Ndikhululukireni ine, chonde mutha kudutsa mbatata," mmalo mwake "Patsani mbatata."
- Musalankhule ndi pakamwa panu.
- Dikirani mpaka aliyense atatumizidwa kudya.
- Mwamsanga mukakhala, lekani chovala chanu pamutu wanu. Ngati mukuyenera kudzuka mutakhala pansi, ikani chovala chanu pa mpando wanu, osati tebulo. Kuyika chophimba pa tebulo ndi chopanda pake.
- Musayika zasiliva zonyansa pa tebulo. Ikani iyo pamphepete mwa mbale yanu kotero musati muipitse tebulo zotsamba.
- Musayese kukambirana. Lolani aliyense akhale ndi zotsalira. Musagwiritse ntchito chinenero chamanyazi. Yesetsani kukacheza ndi alendo omwe simukuwadziwa mmalo momangokhalira kulankhula ndi omwe mumachita.
- Sitikufunsapo chomwe chimadula, ngakhale mutha kufunsa komwe chinachake chinagulidwa.
- Pangani zokondweretsa zokhazokha. Ndi bwino kukhala chete kusiyana ndi kunamizira zabodza.
- Musakhale omaliza kusiya phwando. Nthaŵi zonse muuzeni hostess zikomo ndi kuti mumasangalala madzulo mukamachoka.
- Limbikitsani mnzanuyo tsiku lotsatira ndikuwauza momwe mumasangalalira phwando. Bwino kwambiri, lembani mawu othokoza.
Kugonana
Kuchita zibwenzi ndi kuyendetsa (si chinthu chomwecho) ndi chimodzi mwa nthawi zomwe anthu akummwera amachitira mchitidwe wawo. Ambiri mwa malamulo abwinowa amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa chibwenzi ndi wina aliyense kapena kugonana, ndipo zina ndi zosakhalitsa. Ambiri amachitikirabe.
- Nthawi zonse amatchula akazi ngati amayi. Iwo amachitiridwa ngati choncho ku South. Amuna akummwera ndi ambuye ndipo ndi amodzi (onani miyambo ya ku South Africa ).
- Khalani ndi nthawi yamasiku ndi zokambirana.
- Ndizochikhalidwe kuti abambo azilamulira amayi pamene ali kuresitora. Izi zikugwera pansi, koma belle weniweni akhoza kuyembekezera kuti munthuyo apange dongosolo.
- Musanyoze banja lanu, makamaka mayi wawo. Amuna akum'mwera makamaka ali ndi mgwirizano wolimba ndi amayi awo, mosasamala kanthu momwe mukuganiza kuti ndi wopenga.
- Mbuye weniweni sadzitama pa ntchito yake kapena chuma chake mpaka tsiku lake. M'malo mwake, adzakumbukira zomwe adachita.
- Pangani zokondweretsa zokhazokha. Ndi bwino kukhala chete kusiyana ndi kunamizira zabodza.
- Mwamunayo amapereka ndalama zambiri. M'masiku am'mwera a South, munthu amene akupereka pempho akulipira. Ngati mkazi afunsa mwamuna kunja, akhoza kuyembekezera kulipira. Amuna ena akummwera salandira mkazi akulipira tsiku, ndipo amayi ena akummwera angakhumudwitsidwe ndi malingaliro awo.
- Sungani sewero lamasamba omaliza. Wochokera Kummwera weniweni salemetsa nthawi kuti mavuto ake akhale ovuta kwambiri. Musabweretse chitsimikizo cha nyumba yanu kapena ngongole ya ngongole ya ophunzira pa tsiku loyamba. Pitirizani kukambirana kwanu.
- Chotsani foni yanu mukakhala pa tsiku kapena pa chikhalidwe. Pokhapokha ngati mwadzidzidzi, sikuyenera kusokoneza chidwi chanu kuyambira tsiku lanu.
- Musaiwale kuchitira ena bwino. Mnyanja wakumpoto weniweni amachitira aliyense bwino. Ngati muli okondwerera tsiku lanu, koma mufuule kwa odikirapo, phokoso la mlangoyo ndilowetsa bartender, tsiku lanu lidzazindikira ndipo lidzakuganizirani. Khalani wodekha ndi wolemekezeka kwa aliyense.