Anthu akummwera ankakonda kuchita zinthu zonyada kuposa zonse. Makhalidwe angakhale akudutsa ku South pang'ono, koma mzimu weniweni wa Dixie amakhala m'maso ambiri. Mudzapeza kuti ambiri akummwera akulembabe zikalata zanu, RSVP ndikuti "Bwana" ndi "Maam."
Izi zingawoneke ngati zosakhalitsa kwa alendo, koma mungadabwe kuti malamulowa amapezeka bwanji ku Arkansas . Zina zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kawirikawiri m'mizinda ikuluikulu ngati Little Rock, koma pali mizinda yambiri yomwe ili pafupi ndi Arkansas kumene makhalidwe achikhalidwe ndi Southern slang akulamulira wamkulu.
Zonsezi zimasinthidwa kuchokera ku mabuku enieni a etiquette ndi ma columns (ena kuchokera m'ma 50s ndi 60s). Nkhaniyi ndi yochepa chabe, koma mungadabwe kuti nthawi zambiri makhalidwewa adakalipo, makamaka nthawi zina.
- Khalani Wachifundo : Anthu akummwera nthawi zonse amakhala okoma mtima ndipo amaganizira za ena poyamba, nthawi zambiri payekha. Kumwera kudzawathandiza mlendo aliyense amene akukumana nawo akusowa, ngakhale kupereka ndalama zake zapitazo kapena "shati kumbuyo kwake." Izi zimachokera mu Mateyu 20:16 ndi Marko 12:31. Anthu akummwera akunena kuti "chonde" ndi "zikomo." Ngakhale ulemu ukuchepa pang'ono kum'mwera , ndibwino kwambiri.
- Khalani Wokondana : Momwemonso, anthu nthawi zonse amanena za ubwino wa kumwera. Anthu akummwera amakamba nkhani yaying'ono ndi aliyense ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala oyandikana nawo. Kaŵirikaŵiri amatha kuyang'ana maso, nkuti hello, ndi kudzidziwitsa nokha kumene kuli koyenera.
- Khalani Wokonda / Landirani Chivalry : Amuna ayenera kutsegula chitseko kwa amayi ku South. Mkaziyo akuti, "Zikomo." Amuna ayenera kuimirira pamene mayi alowa m'chipindamo ndi kuresitora ndi madzulo mpaka mayiyo atakhala pansi. Amuna ayenera kupereka mipando kwa amayi pamene malo okwanira amakhalapo, makamaka kuyembekezera amayi. Amuna ayenera kuthandiza amayi ndi malaya awo ndi jekete ndipo nthawi zonse amayenda pamsewu wa msewu pamene mukuyenda ndi mayi. Ma khotiwa amachitabebe, makamaka pamene akuyenda .
- Lemekeza Akulu : Kum'mwera, akulu amalemekezedwa. Aliyense yemwe ali wamkulu wanu ayenera kutchulidwa kuti Maam kapena Sir. Zimakhalanso zachilendo kuitana amayi akulu akulu Miss [dzina loyamba]. Achinyamata azimayi ndi awiri ayenera kupereka mipando kwa akulu pamene malo ochepa amakhalapo. Mmodzi sayenera kukhalapo mpaka mayi ake atakhala. Malamulowa akuchepa pang'ono ndi achinyamata, koma ambiri amawachita.
- Chotsani zipewa : Amuna ayenera kuchotsa zipewa pamene ali mkati, phokoso la fuko, pamene mbendera imakulira komanso popemphera. Akazi akhoza kuvala zipewa zawo nthawi izi. Ichi ndi chizolowezi chofala.
- Khalani Odzichepetsa : Mnyanja yakum'mwera samadzitama. Amakonda kugonjetsa zomwe achita ndi katundu wawo. Mnyanja wakummwera wabwino amachitabe izi.
- Khalani Otukuka : Kummwera kwa nthawizonse kumapitiriza kukongoletsa. Sagwiritsa ntchito chinenero chamanyazi kapena kusokoneza pagulu. Anthu akummwera amavalanso moyenera, osasiya pang'ono kuganiza. Kwa zochitika zowonongeka, izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito lerolino, ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri amatsuka nthawi zochepa.
- Musamangokhalira Kumangirira Ena : Kummwera sikumasintha munthu wina aliyense koma amadikirira mpaka mphindi yapadera pamene kukonza sikungakhale kochititsa manyazi. Anthu akumadera akumidzi samatsutsana ndi ena pamene akulankhula. Ichi ndi chikhalidwe choyembekezeredwa kwa Wachisanu wamtundu wabwino.
- Gwiritsani Ntchito Nthawi Yanu : Anthu akummwera amatenga nthawi yawo ndipo safulumira kudya, kukambirana kapena china chilichonse. Ngati muthamanga, mwina mukufunikira kuchoka ku South. Timakonda kutenga nthawi yathu pano ngakhale lero.
- Khalani ndi Manja Olimba : Kum'mwera, zambiri zimasindikizidwa ndi kugwirana chanza. Kugwirana chanza bwino kumakhala kolimba, koma osati fupa-kusweka ndikumatha masekondi atatu. Kuyankhulana maso pa nthawi yogwirana chanza n'kofunika.