Ulendo wamasewera ukhoza kukhala wokondweretsa, kutseguka maso, ndi zolimbikitsa kwambiri, kutitengera ku malo omwe anthu ochepa amapezekapo, pamene akutilowetsa m'madera ndi malo omwe amatha kukondweretsa ndi kusangalatsa. Koma mwina zifukwa zofunika kwambiri kuti tisangalale ndi ulendo wotere ndizitsogozo zomwe timayenda nawo panjira. Amuna ndi akazi awa amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maulendo athu osakumbukika, ndi zabwino mwa iwo omwe amasiyiratu kuganiza mobwerezabwereza titabwerera kwathu.
Kukhala wotsogolera wabwino sikumakhala kosavuta komabe, ndipo zimatengera zaka zambiri zodziwa bwino ndi kukonzanso bwino kwambiri pa ntchitoyi. Mitu yambiri yabwino imakhala ndi makhalidwe ofanana omwe amawasiyanitsa ndi mpikisano, ndi kuthandiza kutumiza makasitomala awo kunyumba mokondwa ndi okhutira. Pano pali makhalidwe asanu omwe amatsogolera abwino.
Amakonda Zimene Amachita
Chodziwikiratu cha chilimbikitso chilichonse choyenda bwino ndi chakuti amakonda zomwe amachita. Ngati alibe chilakolako cha ulendo, ndi kugawana nawo maubwenzi awo, zimakhala zoonekeratu mofulumira ndipo kawirikawiri zimabweretsa zotsatira zochepa zokhutiritsa makasitomala. Malangizo abwino kwambiri ndi okondwa, okonda, komanso okonda kwambiri. Amakhalanso ndi mphamvu zowonjezera, zomwe zimachitika patsiku lachisanu ndi chitatu la ulendo wautali wa milungu iŵiri yomwe ikukukhudzani ndi kuyimitsa. Kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala ndi chisangalalo chenicheni chogawana malo ndi alendo oyambirira, mosasamala kuti ndi kangati omwe akhalapo okha.
Ndipo pamene oyendetsa alendo angakhale ntchito yawo, nthawi zonse ndizochitikira zomwe amasangalala nazo.
Amadziwika Kwambiri
Otsogolera oyendayenda onse ali ndi chidziwitso chapadera cha malo omwe akuwatsogolera. Iwo amadziwa mbiri ndi chikhalidwe cha malo abwino kwambiri, ndipo samangowonetsera zokhazokha panjira, koma angayankhe komanso mafunso omwe angabwererenso.
Malangizo abwino amakhala ndi chidwi chokhudzana ndi ntchito yawo, ndipo nthawi zonse amaphunzira zinthu zatsopano zomwe angathe kugawana ndi oyenda anzawo. Mwachidule, iwo amakhala ophunzira okondwa, amapitirizabe kufotokozera mfundo zawo, kuwerenga za zinthu zatsopano zomwe amapeza, ndikuphatikizapo zowonjezereka zomwe zikupezeka paulendo wawo. Pamene makasitomala awo amapita kunyumba, kawirikawiri adaphunzira zambiri za malo omwe sankayembekezera asanapite.
Amayanjanitsidwa bwino
Malangizo abwino kwambiri oyendayenda amawoneka ngati akudziwa bwino anthu onse omwe amapita kumalo osiyanasiyana omwe amapita nawo, kuphatikizapo maulendo ena ambiri. Izi zimawathandiza kuti adziŵe bwino zomwe zikuchitika kumalo enaake, ndipo amapereka zambiri zomwe zingakhale zothandiza kupeza makasitomala awo zabwino, kupeŵa makamu akuluakulu, kapena kupeza malo opanda phokoso kuti adye. Zitsogozo zabwino kwambiri zimakhala zodziwikiratu pamalo omwe amapita, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi malo omwe aliyense sangalowemo. Adzagwiritsa ntchito mwayi umenewu kuti apereke makasitomala apadera, ndikuthandizira kuyendetsa paulendowu kuti amvetsetse mndandanda wa zojambulazo kuti asanatuluke.
Amasamalira Anthu Omwe Amakhala nawo
Zingakhale zodabwitsa kwa oyenda, koma sizitsogolera zonse makamaka za anthu omwe akutsogolera paulendo wawo. Kwa ena, ndi ntchito chabe ndipo adzayesetsa kuthetsa vutoli pokhapokha atayesetsa kuchita khama. Koma zitsogozo zabwino sizidangoganizira za makasitomala awo, koma zimapereka kuonetsetsa kuti amasangalala ndi ulendo wawo woyendayenda. Adzaphunzira za anthu omwe akuyenda nawo ndikugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso kuti awawonetse nthawi yabwino kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ngati akudziwa kuti makasitomala awo amakonda kukhala otanganidwa kwambiri, otsogolera abwino angachepetse ulendo wopita ku nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale pofuna kukwera kumapiri m'malo mwake. Adzayang'ana nthawi zonse ndi gulu kuti adziwe momwe aliyense akumvera, ndipo amasonyeza chidwi ndi chifundo kwa omwe amadwala ali panjira.
Iwo amayesetsanso kuti agwirizanitse ndi anthu omwe akuwatsogolera, omwe angapangitse ubale womwe umapitirira kutalika kwa kutalika kwa ulendo wokha.
Amadziŵa Zosangalatsa Kwambiri!
Malangizo abwino kwambiri ali ndi lingaliro lomwelo lomwe limapangitsa oyendayenda kuti afune kufufuza dziko lapansi. Iwo amasangalala kwambiri ndi zomwe amachita, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mwayi kuti akhoza kupeza zofunika pamoyo wawo pogawana malo awo omwe amakonda komanso ena. Iwo ndi anthu achangu omwe amasangalala kupita kumapiri, kukwera mtsinje woopsa, ndi kumanga msasa pansi pa nyenyezi. Kwa iwo, kutsogolera sikuli ntchito chabe, ndi njira ya moyo, ndipo ali okhutira ndi zofuna zawo monga momwe zilili ndi zomwe amapatsidwa kuti azitsogolere. Amawona ulendo uliwonse ngati chinthu chodabwitsa, ndipo samatopa ndi kutenga makasitomala awo kumalo odabwitsa omwe amawachezera nthawi zonse. Iwo amachita chidwi ndi dziko lozungulira, ndipo amasonyeza mwachangu ndi mphamvu zawo. Ndipo akasonkhana pamoto wamoto kapena patebulo kumapeto kwa tsiku, amatha kukakamiza makasitomala awo ndi zida zawo.
Izi ndizosakayika, makhalidwe omwe ndapeza m'mabuku abwino omwe ndagwira nawo ntchito kwa zaka zambiri. Ambiri mwa iwo ali ndi zikuluzikulu, zomwe zimakhala zovuta, komabe zimakhalanso zanzeru, zozizwitsa, ndikuzipereka ku ntchito yawo. Izi zikuwonetseratu ntchito yawo, komanso kuthekera kwawo kutithandiza kusangalala ndi ulendo wathu. Zimatithandizanso kuti tiyende nawo limodzi ngati mwayi udzakhalapo.