Mwamwayi, India amavomereza zinthu zambiri zoipa zokhudza kugwiriridwa, kuzunzidwa, ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa amayi. Izi zimapangitsa alendo ambiri kukayikira ngati India ndi malo otetezeka kuti akazi aziwachezera. Ena amaopa kwambiri moti amazengereza kapena kukana kupita ku India.
Kotero, kodi mkhalidwe uli wotani kwenikweni?
Kumvetsetsa Vuto ndi chifukwa chake
Palibe zotsutsa kuti India ndi dziko lolamulidwa ndi amuna kumene ulamuliro wa makolo ulizikika.
Njira zosiyana za amuna ndi akazi zimayamba kuyambira ali aang'ono, pamene ana akukula. Sikuti ndi khalidwe chabe, koma limafikira ku chinenero ndi momwe anthu amaganizira. Atsikana nthawi zambiri amawoneka kuti ali ndi udindo kapena cholemetsa chokwatirana. Amauzidwa kukhala ofatsa ndi ogonjera, ndi kuvala moyenera. Anyamata, komano, kaŵirikaŵiri amaloledwa kuchita zinthu zomwe akufuna. Mtundu uliwonse wa nkhanza kapena kulemekeza akazi ukuperekedwa ngati "anyamata ndi anyamata", ndipo osakayikira kapena kulangizidwa.
Anyamata amaphunzira kuchokera momwe makolo awo amachitira nawo, kuphatikizapo amayi awo akugonjera bambo awo. Izi zimawapatsa iwo lingaliro lolakwika la chikhalidwe. Kuyanjana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi omwe sali pabanja kumakhalanso kochepa ku India, zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana. Zonsezi, izi zimapangitsa kuti ufulu wa amayi usawonedwe ngati chinthu chachikulu.
Mayi wina yemwe adafunsa mafunso okwana 100 omwe anagwidwa ndi chigamulo ku India anapeza kuti akukwatira ndi amuna omwe sadziwa chilolezo.
Ambiri sazindikira kuti zomwe achita ndi kugwirira.
India ikukula ngakhale, makamaka m'mizinda ikuluikulu. Maganizo a patriarchal akutsutsidwa ndi chiwerengero chokwanira cha amayi omwe akugwira ntchito kunja kwa nyumba ndikukhala odziimira paokha. Azimayiwa akupanga zosankha zawo, m'malo molola amuna kuti awalamulire.
Komabe, izi zimathandizanso amuna kuchita nkhanza, ngati akuwopsyeza ndikuyesanso kubwezeretsanso mphamvu zawo.
Nkhani ya Akazi Akunja ku India
Chikhalidwe cha makolo a ku India chimakhudza momwe maulendo achikazi amadziŵira ndi kuchitidwa ku India ndi amuna. Mwachikhalidwe, akazi a ku India samayenda okha popanda kuyenda ndi mwamuna. Ingoyang'ana m'misewu ku India. Kusakhala kwa akazi kumakhala koonekera bwino. Malo ammudzi amadzaza ndi amuna, pamene amayi amachotsedwa kunyumba ndi khitchini. M'madera ambiri ku India, akazi sangatulukire kunja kunja mdima.
Mafilimu a Hollywood ndi mapulogalamu ena akumadzulo a TV omwe amasonyeza akazi oyera akugonana mosalekeza, amachititsanso amuna ambiri a ku India kukhulupirira molakwika kuti akazi oterewa ndi "omasuka" ndi "ophweka".
Gwirizanitsani zinthu ziwiri izi palimodzi, ndipo pamene munthu wachi Indian uyu akuwona mkazi wachilendo akuyenda yekha ku India, ziri ngati kuyitanidwa kotseguka kwa kupita patsogolo kosayenera. Izi zikulongosoledwa ngati mkaziyo akuvala zovala zolimba kapena zovumbulutsidwa zomwe zimaonedwa ngati zosayenera ku India.
Masiku ano, chimodzi mwa mitundu yofala kwambiri ya kupititsa patsogolo kosafuna ndikuzunzidwa kwa selfies. Zingamveke kuti ndizosawonongeka. Komabe, zomwe amuna amachita ndi selfies ndi nkhani ina.
Ambiri adzawatumizira pazolinga zamankhwala, akudzinenera kuti ali ndi zibwenzi ndipo akhala pachibwenzi ndi akazi.
Zosasangalatsa koma osati Zosungika
Monga mkazi wachilendo, kusamvetsedwa ku India kumakhala kosalephereka. Mudzayang'aniridwa ndi amuna, ndipo mwina mumadandaula ndi kuzunzidwa mwachipongwe (kutchedwa "kuseka") nthawi zina. Nthawi zambiri zimathera pomwepo. Mkazi wokhala alendo akugwiriridwa ku India ali ndi mwayi wokhazikika kuposa wina aliyense padziko lapansi. Ndipotu, India ndi yabwino kwa akazi achilendo kuposa akazi achimwenye. Chifukwa chiyani?
India ndi dziko losiyana kwambiri. Mosiyana ndi zomwe zingawonetsedwe m'ma TV, nkhanza kwa amayi sizikuchitika kulikonse. Ndizofala kwambiri m'madera ena kuposa ena. Zambiri zimachitika m'madera otsika komanso kumidzi, makamaka m'madera akumidzi kapena kumidzi komwe kuli anthu osauka.
Komabe, lankhulani ndi amayi achilendo omwe adayenda kuzungulira India, ndipo mwina akhoza kufotokozera zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Kwa ena, chizunzo chinali chofala. Kwa ena, zinali zochepa. Komabe, ndizosatheka kwambiri. Ndipo, muyenera kukhala okonzekera momwe mungachitire.
Kodi Muyenera Kuchita Chiyani?
Tsoka ilo, amayi ambiri achilendo sakudziwa momwe angachitire. Akakhala pazinthu zovuta, amachita manyazi kwambiri ndipo safuna kuwonetsa zochitika. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe amwenye amwenye akumvera amachitira zolakwika poyamba pomwe - palibe amene amawakangana nawo!
Kusanyalanyaza zochitika kapena kuyesa kuthawa nthawi zonse sikukwanira. M'malomwake, zimakhala zogwira mtima kwambiri kuti zitsimikizire. Amuna omwe sagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa amayi omwe amadziyimira okha amawopsya mosavuta ndipo amatha msanga. Komanso, amayi omwe ali ndi chikhulupiliro molimba mtima ndipo amawoneka kuti akhoza kudziyang'anira okha sakhala zovuta poyamba. Amwenye amakhalanso ndi mantha ochokera kwa anthu akunja ndi ochokera kunja.
Si onse Oipa
Chinthu chofunika kukumbukira ndikuti sikuti amuna onse amwenye amagawana maganizo omwewo. Pali amuna ambiri abwino omwe amalemekeza amayi ndipo sazengereza kupereka thandizo ngati kuli kofunikira. Mungadabwe kukumana ndi zochitika zomwe mukuchiritsidwa bwino kuposa momwe mukuyembekezera. Ambiri Amwenye amafuna kuti alendo asangalale komanso azikonda dziko lawo, ndipo amachoka kuti apereke thandizo. Zomwe mwakumakumbukira bwino kwambiri ku India zidzakhudza anthu ammudzi.
Kotero, Kodi Akazi Akunja Ayenera Kuyenda Solo ku India?
Mwachidule, kokha ngati mutha kuchigwira. Zoonadi, India si dziko limene mudzamva kuti muli omasuka ndipo mukufuna kuonetsetsa kuti muteteze, ngakhale kuti mphoto ziripodi. Yembekezerani kuti mukhale okhumudwa nthawi zina, osadziwa choti muchite. Choncho, ngati ili ulendo wanu woyamba kudziko lakutali, India si malo enieni oyenera kuyamba. Ngati muli ndi maulendo ena oyendayenda ndipo muli otsimikiza ngakhale, palibe chifukwa chokhala opanda chitetezo ngati muli oganiza bwino. Musapite kumadera akutali kapena kukhala ndekha usiku. Onetsetsani chilankhulo chanu ndi momwe mumayanjanirana ndi amuna ku India. Ngakhale manja osamvetsetsa, monga kumwetulira kapena kugwira pa mkono, akhoza kutanthauziridwa ngati chidwi. Khalani mumsewu mwanzeru ndipo khulupirirani zachibadwa zanu!
Kodi malo otchuka ndi ovuta kwambiri ndi ati?
Kumbukirani kuti malo omwe mumawachezera ku India adzakhalanso ndi mphamvu yaikulu pazochitika zanu. Kawirikawiri, kum'mwera (Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, Kerala, Andhra Pradesh) ndiwopanda malire poyerekeza ndi kumpoto.
Tamil Nadu ndi imodzi mwa malo abwino kwambiri omwe amai amapita ku India . Mumbai ndi mzinda wadziko lonse wolemekezeka. Malo ena ku India omwe ali osasokonekera ndi Gujarat, Punjab , Himachal Pradesh , Uttarakhand , Northeast India , ndi Ladakh.
Kawirikawiri, kuchitiridwa nkhanza kumafala kwambiri ku malo otchuka omwe amapezeka kumpoto kwa India, kuphatikizapo Delhi, Agra, ndi mbali zina za Rajasthan, Madhya Pradesh ndi Uttar Pradesh. Agate Fatehpur Sikri , pafupi ndi Agra, amadziwika kuti ndi amodzi mwa malo oipa kwambiri ku India chifukwa cha chizunzo chofala cha alendo, komanso Amwenye (mwa zovuta ndi zitsogozo, kuwonjezera pa goons wamba). Mu 2017, izi zinapangitsa kuti anthu awiri a ku Switzerland azunzidwe.
Kodi Muyenera Kukhala Kuti?
Sankhani malo ogona mwanzeru. Okhazikika amapereka madalitso angapo, kuphatikizapo kudziwa komwe akukuyang'anira. Mwinanso, India tsopano ili ndi ma hostels ambirimbiri omwe amabwera kumbuyo kwa dziko kumene mungakumane ndi anthu ena.