Kodi muli ndi luso loyenera kukhala mwini nyumba?

Gawo la mndandanda wa zolemba za olakalaka ogona ndi ogona

Ndizosatheka kufotokozera munthu weniweni yemwe amagwira ntchito pabedi ndi kadzutsa.

Iwo amachokera ku miyambo yonse, kuchokera kwa akatswiri kupita kwa antchito. Ojambula, aluso, alangizi, othandizi a inshuwalansi, aphunzitsi ndi wina aliyense amene mungaganize atsegula ndi kuyendetsa B & B opambana. Anthu osakwatira, mabanja ndi mabanja onse akukhudzidwa.

Zifukwa zawo zotsegula bedi ndi kadzutsa? Mosiyanasiyana.

Mwinamwake ana adakula ndikuchoka ndipo muli zipinda zopanda kanthu m'nyumba yaikulu.

Anthu ena amangokhala ndi zipinda zambiri kuposa momwe amafunikira. Amasiye kapena osudzulana atsegula B & Bs.

Pamene iwo akuthamangitsidwa kuti akhale gwero la ndalama, anthu ambiri samadalira pa iwo okha chifukwa cha moyo wawo. Anthu amapuma pantchito zina - monga akatswiri kapena alimi - omwe ali ndi gwero lapadera la ndalama nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito bedi ndi nthawi yopuma.

Malo ogona ogona ndi ogona bwino ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana: eni amene amakonda anthu!

Amakhalanso okondweretsa anthu m'nyumba zawo. Ambiri mwa ambuyewa ali ndi luso lomwe akufuna kugwiritsa ntchito, monga kuphika, kuti akondwere alendo awo. Ena angakhale ndi nyumba zazikulu zomwe akufuna kugawana ndi ena.

Aliyense woganizira kwambiri kutsegula bedi ndi kadzutsa ayenera kukonda anthu ndikukwanitsa kuthana ndi mitundu yonse ya anthu. Awa ndi bizinesi ya anthu! Muyeneranso kukhala okonzeka kupereka gawo lalikulu la moyo wanu chifukwa alendo adzakhala nanu.

Maluso ambiri amafunika kuti mugwire bwino bedi ndi kadzutsa. Kodi muli ndi zomwe zimatengera?

Musanayambe nthawi yambiri ndi ndalama, yesetsani kufufuza kuti mudziwe ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo muli ndi luso lofunikira.

Yankhani moona mtima polemba inde kapena ayi ku mawu aliwonsewa pansipa.

(Kumbukirani, kufufuza uku ndi kwa inu - ngati simunali owona mtima ndi mayankho anu, sikungakuthandizeni!)

Lembani zokambirana zanu nokha komanso mnzanuyo. Muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti achite chimodzimodzi. (Kotero inu nonse mudzaze kafukufuku kawiri.)

Kufufuza Kwaumwini

Yerekezerani mayankho anu ndi mnzanuyo. Kodi mphamvu zanu ndi zofooka zanu ndi ziti? Kodi yankho lanu lililonse - kapena mayankho a mnzanu - likudabwa?

Tsopano dziwani, mwa kulemba, mphamvu zanu ndi zofooka zanu. Ngati mukukonzekera kukhala woyang'anira nyumba, mphamvu zanu ziyenera kupambana zofooka zanu ndipo muyenera kupeza njira zothetsera malo osauka.

Mndandanda wa malemba ndi zolembazo poyamba zinalembedwa ndi Eleanor Ames, katswiri wodziwa za sayansi ya abambo a Family and a faculty ku Ohio State University kwa zaka 28. Ali ndi mwamuna wake, adathamanga ku Burayi ndi Bluemont Bed and Breakfast ku Luray, Virginia, mpaka atasiya ntchito yawo osasunga. Ambiri akuyamikira Eleanor chifukwa cha chilolezo chake chachisomo kuti abwezeretsenso pano. Zina mwazinthu zasinthidwa, ndipo zokhudzana ndi zinthu zowonjezera pa tsambali zawonjezeredwa ku malemba oyambirira a Eleanor.