Malangizo ndi Malangizo ochokera kwa makolo pa Momwe Mungapititsire Mbuzi ndi Mwana Wanu
Pali zinthu zambiri zofunika kuziganizira musanamange msasa komanso kukhala ndi khanda kungabweretse mafunso ena ochepa. Yo mwina akudabwa: bwanji kupita kumisasa? Ngati muli ndi mwana wakhanda amene sakuyenera kukuletsani, koma mutha kusamala kuti muwonetsetse kuti aliyense, ngakhale nthawi yanu yoyamba yamsasa, amakhala ndi nthawi yabwino.
Yambani ndi mndandanda wathu wa misasa ndikuonjezerani mwana aliyense amene mukufunikira.
Funso: Kodi Munayamba Mwapitako Nsodzi Yamng'ono?
Yankho: Sarahtar1 atumizidwa pamsonkhano wa msasa: "Kodi munayamba mwatenga kamwana kampando? Ngati ndi choncho, muli ndi malangizo omwe mungagwire nawo? Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndinu wamng'ono bwanji?" Mwamwayi, ndilibe ana, kotero ndikudziletsa ndekha kuti ndisayankhe. Komabe, makolo ambiri odziwa bwino anawayankha. M'munsimu muli ena mwa malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro.
"Nthawi zonse tanyamula ana athu kumsasa ndipo tinkawatenga kuti azigona nawo, ndipo posachedwa tinamanga ukonde kuti tikhoza kukwera pamwamba pa bedi lamakilomita athu awiri. Angathe kugona popanda kugwa, kapena kukwera, kutuluka. Pamene anali wamng'ono, timayika bassinette patebulo. Onetsetsani kuti sizizizira kwambiri. " ~ pastorerik
"Tinkamanga msasa ndi anyamata atatu , wamng'ono kwambiri ali ndi zaka 2, ndipo tinayamba kumulenga pafupi ndi miyezi 20. Iye ndi mwana wamwamuna wokongola kwambiri, ndipo amakonda kukamanga!
Anaponya maulendo awiri nthawi yoyamba, ndipo mwamuna wanga kapena ine tikangokhala m'galimoto pamodzi ndi iye kufikira atadutsa kuti tisasokoneze ena ogwira ntchito. Chinthu chomwe ndimakonda kwambiri ndicho kugwiritsa ntchito bokosi lachitsulo cha Rubbermaid monga bedi lachibwana. Timagwiritsanso ntchito kampando wamkulu wa msasa ndi masenje mkati mwake chifukwa cha chikho cha 'chosasangalatsa' kotero sichikhala pansi.
Timabweretsanso zidole za zida za abale ake akuluakulu. "~ Captivaa
"Tinatenga msasa wathu wamwamuna kumayambiriro kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi (6) ndipo adathamanga mpaka kumapeto kwa tarp ndi kudya dothi, osangalala kwambiri kwa onse, sindinadandaule ngati akadali wamng'ono, ndikudziwa kuti ndikufuna kuti azisangalala ndi banja lake, monga kuyenda mu paki, vuto lokhalo limene tinali nalo ndilo pamene adayamba kuyambira. Ndikuganiza kuti kukhala kunja kwa nyengo yozizira kunkaipiraipira kwambiri. Timagwiritsa ntchito gel osakaniza, lomwe linathandiza. Nkhumba sizingakhale vuto lalikulu Ndikufuna ndikupangitseni khungu la mwana wanu litaphimbidwa ndi manja aatali / mathalauza kuti asatenge kachilombo. Nthawi zonse timatenga msasa wathu wamwamuna, ndipo tsopano ali ndi zaka 13 ali ndi Ife nthawi zambiri timabweretsa tenti yowonjezera yomwe angagwiritse ntchito ngati chihema chomasewera ndi anzake kapena galu. Izi zimachititsa kuti chihema cha banja chikhale choyera. ~ Pattysweet8
"Ndikanakhala ndidziwe kuti zimakhala zophweka bwanji kumanga msinkhu wa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi pamene wamkulu wanga anali wamng'ono, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tikanati tibwererenso kuntchito yomwe timakonda kwambiri posachedwa. anali ndi miyezi isanu, chifukwa sitinkafuna kusunga mwana wathu wamwamuna wazaka 4 kuchokera pachidziwitsocho.
Panopa ndili ndi zaka ziwiri, # 2 ndizomwe ndimapanga msasa komanso ndi wamkulu kwambiri. Mwana wothandizira, wodutsa, phukusi-n-play ndizofunikira kwambiri, ndipo makamaka amapatsa wamng'onoyo malo osiyana kuti azisangalala panja ndikudzimasula nokha kuti muzichita ntchito zapakhomo (kuphika, etc.). msasa , ndipo ngati mwanayo anadzuka pakati pa usiku tinangomudodometsa kuti tigone ndi kukangana kochepa, ndipo pa nthawi yosavuta iye anakumana naye kwambiri tinamukweza naye pabedi. Ndikuganiza kuti fungulo ndilolola kuti achinyamata asatope kwambiri akakhala pamsasa. Kuwasunga pakhomo pawo pakhomo, kudya chakudya chokhazikika, ndi zina zotero, zomwe zimathandiza kuchepetsa kukhumudwa kumene kumabweretsa kulira / phokoso la anthu omwe akuzungulira. "~ YolandaSW
"Ana anga tsopano akukula ndipo amamanga msasa ndi ana awo okhaokha. Koma tikamanga msasa ndi ana, chinthu choyamba chimene timachita ndichokhazikitsa malire.
Ngakhale kwa ana. Yendani kumalowa nawo omwe amaloledwa kuyenda popanda kuyang'aniridwa. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zozunzirako zokha. Mukayambitsa izi monga ana, akuluakulu amadziwa bwino kumene angapite, koma nthawi zonse muwauze. Mwanjira imeneyo palibe kusamvetsetsa kuti zisawononge ulendo. "~ Pang'ono
"Nthawi zonse tinkatenga mwana wathu wamisala kumsasa. Monga khanda, sizinkawoneka ngati zovuta. Ndili ndi zaka 1-2, zinali zovuta kwambiri ngati mukufuna, ndi kuwalola kuti azigona pansi, kapena bwino, kumbuyo kwa bwalo, makamaka mukufuna kuti akhale omasuka komanso osangalala. Ndizovuta kwambiri mwana, kholo, ndi ena, ngati wamng'ono akufuula ndi kulira usiku wonse Nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kukhala zosangalatsa, kuwapatsa zambiri kuti achite, kuwalola kuti azikhala odetsedwa, osokonezeka, ndi osangalala. Ndizovuta kwa aliyense, ngati wina nthawizonse akunena kuti asakhudze izo, musakhale wonyansa, musapereke Musati muzisangalala ndi ana anu akakhala aang'ono, samakhala motero nthawi yaitali. " ~ pogchop
"Musawope kutenga mwana wanu wamng'ono tsopano mwana wanga ali ndi zaka 13, ndipo amanga msasa chaka chilichonse cha moyo wake. Ndatenga ana athu paulendo waukulu, ndipo palibe zofanana ndi zomwe mukukumbukira. Malingana ngati ana (pa msinkhu uliwonse) amasungidwa ndi kutenthedwa usiku, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri. Chidole chokonda, nyama yophimba, ndi bulangete ndiloyenera. Mukhoza kuwerenga pamodzi nthawi zina kukhala wopulumutsa moyo nthawi zamtendere. Nthawi zonse timakhala tikuwerenga pamodzi m'chihema tisanalowe mkati. Patsikuli tangoyang'anirani maso, popeza pali dziko latsopano kuti afufuze. Mwana wakhanda ndi wosavuta kwambiri kusiyana ndi mwana wamng'ono pa ulendo wanu woyamba. Mwanayo adzaphunzira ndipo adzapitiriza kusangalala ndi kunja ndi zonse zomwe zikuyenda nawo. " ~ catlinn