Gwiritsani Ntchito Malangizo Awa Pewani Chithandizo cha Snobby
Kodi Akazi Achifaransa Ndi Achiwawa?
Mwamva nthawi ndi nthawi: "A French ali achinyengo!" Musanayambe kulowera ku France, mumamva nkhani zoopsya za anthu olankhula Chifalansa opanda pake omwe amatha kusintha mphuno zawo kwa aliyense ndi aliyense, omwe amatsutsa anthu a ku Paris omwe amakana kupereka malangizo, kapena anthu a ku France omwe amadana ndi Achimereka.
Kotero pamene iwe upita kumeneko kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndicho chimene iwe ukuyembekezera ndi kukonzekera icho.
Anthu ambiri akhoza kukhala oipa, ngati atakankhidwa. Koma mudzadabwa kwambiri. Sikuti anthu ambiri a ku France omwe mumakumana nawo, ndi amodzi, amathandiza komanso okoma mtima. Ndipo inde, iwo amachoka kuti akuthandizeni! Zingakhale bwanji izi? Kodi anthu otchedwa French achifundo anali kuti?
Koma nthawi zina izi zimakhala zabwino, makamaka ngati takhala tikuzoloŵera. Tinkapita chaka chilichonse pokayendera ku brasserie pafupi ndi Ecole Militaire ku Paris yotchedwa Thoumieux. Iyo inali mu arrondissement ya 7 ndi yosangalatsa kwambiri, yonseyo inkaoneka ngati misonkho ya ku Paris. Odikirira adakugwedezani, akukupatsani mndandanda popanda kumwemwetulira ndipo mudatulutsanso mutatala. Tinazoloŵera ndipo tinakhala masewera kuti tipeze woperekera chakudya. Nthawi zina zinkakhala bwino. Kenaka Paris anaganiza zopitiliza ntchito yamakono ndikuphunzitsa odikira kunena Bonjour kapena Bonsoir ndi kumwetulira, ndipo mvetserani zomwe mukunena.
Tinayendamo ndipo oyang'anirawo anachita zomwezo. Koma sizinali zofanana. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, tinkafuna kuti anthu omwe amawathandiza. Tidadziwa kumene tinali nawo. Musadandaule; Zimatengera mitundu yonse ndipo ngati muli ndi mwayi mutenga zokondweretsa. Pitirizani kupirira ndi aliyense amene mupeza; Thoumieux ndi okongola komanso mtengo wapatali.
Mmene Mungasangalalire Achifalansa
Palibe chinsinsi chakuya. Ingotsatirani malangizowo a nzeru omwe mungakhale kulikonse padziko lapansi. Monga:
- Nthawi zonse muziyesetsa kulankhula Chifalansa. Kungonena kuti, "Bonjour! Parlez-vous English?" (wotchulidwa bon-jouha, pah-lay vooz ahn-glay) akhoza kuchita zodabwitsa. Zimatanthauza, "Moni. Kodi mumayankhula Chingerezi?" A French ambiri omwe amasonyeza kuti amadziwa zambuli mwadzidzidzi amalankhula bwino English ngati mutayesa. Komanso, yesani kulingalira zomwe mungaganize za munthu wina yemwe simunamudziwe akuyenda kwa inu akulankhula Chifalansa ndikuyembekezera kuti muyankhe m'chinenero chimenecho.
- Onetsetsani kuti mwapereka moni kwa alendo, ndi "Bonjour" musanayambe zopempha zina. Ku France, zimaonedwa kuti ndizonyansa kumangoyenda ndikuyamba kulankhula monga ife timachitira ku America.
- Limbikitsani pansi! Achifalansa ndi anthu odzitukumula kwambiri pagulu (ngakhale atakhala ndi moyo kapena atangokhalira kusangalala ndi chinachake akhoza kusintha ma decibels). Sindinazindikire kuti kukhumudwa kungakhale kulira kufikira nditakhala ku France. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinali kudya chakudya chamadzulo ku Carcassonne pamene gulu la alendo oyenda ku America linalowetsa, akufuula mokweza, akuyendayenda m'malesitilanti akunyamula zithunzi za anthu ogwira ntchito ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala amwano. Mwamuna wina anafuula, "Ndikudabwa ngati akutumikira kuno?" m'chipinda chonse. Chikhalidwe chawo chinapangidwanso kwambiri ku France kumene anthu ali ofunika kwambiri. Ndikhoza kuzindikira kuti antchito odikirirawo anali olemekezeka kwambiri kumabwatowa, ngakhale atasokoneza nthawi yamadzulo.
- Phunzirani za kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe. Nthaŵi zambiri, a ku France amachitira mwano chifukwa chochita zinthu zomwe zimaonedwa kuti ndizonyansa ndi miyezo yawo. Dziwani chikhalidwe ndi miyambo ya chi France musanayambe kupeŵa kusamvana.
Ndakhala ndi Chifalansa amene adayang'anitsitsa mapu kuti anditsogolere komwe ndikupita, amene analemba dola ndiyomwe ndinkamenyana ndi chiwerengero cha Chifalansa chomwe adalankhula komanso amene anandithandiza kuti andithandize. Ndalandira thandizo mu Chingerezi kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri a ku France. Yesetsani kupeza chilankhulo chachilendo mukupita ku New York City. Kotero musati mupite ndi lingaliro la tsankho; Chitani aliyense monga momwe mungakhalire kunyumba ndipo mudzakhala ndi tchuthi lalikulu.
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Kukonzekera Kwambiri musanapite ku France
Konzani Mpumulo Wosabwereza wa France
Onani Malangizo Awa Okupulumutsa mukakhala ku France
Zosankha Zowonjezera ku France
Yosinthidwa ndi Mary Anne Evans