Chikondwerero chaukwati m'banja chimayamba mwamsanga ukwati ukatha. Nthawi zambiri zimayenda panthawi yachisangalalo, pamene abambo ali ndi nthawi komanso kufuna kuganizirana kwathunthu ndi kutulutsa dziko lonse lapansi.
Chikondi, chikondi, ndi chikondi, limodzi ndi kugonana nthawi zambiri, ndizo zizindikiro za malo osungirako uchi. Ndi nthawi yomwe mabanja ambiri ali pachimake ndipo amayang'ana bwino.
Palibe ndipo palibe wokondweretsa banja latsopano kusiyana ndi wina ndi mzake, ndipo angasankhe kuthawa kwauchimwemwe kumene angasangalale pokhala payekha komanso osasokonezeka.
Pa nthawi yachisangalalo, abwenzi ndi abambo angayambe kumverera ngati akunyalanyaza pamene bwenzi lachibale lawo silikuwapatula. Ndi khalidwe langwiro.
Si Zonse Zokhudza Kugonana
Gawo lachisangalalo ndi nthawi ya kufufuza, pamene muphunzira zinthu zatsopano za mnzanuyo. Kawirikawiri, mumangomva mowa mopitirira muyeso mukakhala ndi mnzanuyo . Komabe pangakhale mphindi yovuta, pamene ikukukhudzani kwambiri: Uyu ndiye munthu amene ndalonjeza kuti ndidzakhala naye moyo wanga wonse. Mkazi wanu ali ndi zolakwika, inu mukuzindikira. Mofanana ndi inu! Kuvomereza zimenezo ndi gawo la kusintha kwa moyo wanu watsopano pamodzi.
Gawoli ndilo pamene mukuyamba kupanga zisankho zazikulu zomwe simunakambirane musanakwatirane. Iyenso ndi nthawi yomwe mumayamba kupanga zizoloŵezi zomwe zimatanthauzira banja lanu zaka zambiri.
Kodi Nyengo Yamadzulo Imakhala Yotalika Motani?
Kawirikawiri, chibwenzi chaukwati chimatha kwa chaka chimodzi. Malinga ndi nkhani ina mu nyuzipepala ya The New York Times:
Akatswiri ofufuza a ku America ndi ku Ulaya anapeza anthu 1,761 omwe anakwatira ndipo adakwatirana zaka 15. Zomwe anapeza zinali zomveka kuti: Anthu okwatirana kumene amasangalala kwambiri chifukwa cha zaka ziwiri zokha. iwo abwerera kumene iwo anayamba, mwina mwachisangalalo. "
Ndiye mavuto ena monga ntchito, mavuto a m'banja, mavuto a zachuma, ndi thanzi angayambe kukakamiza munthu mmodzi kuti athe kusintha maganizo ake kuchokera kwa watsopanoyo kupita kwina. Kaŵirikaŵiri banjali limatha kubwezeretsa ndi kubwezeretsa mowa wawo wina ndi mzake.
Kwa mabanja ena, malo osungirako chibwenzi amatha zaka zitatu kapena zisanu ndipo nthawi zina amatalika. Nthaŵi zambiri, malo osungirako chisangalalo amatha pang'onopang'ono ndipo amaloŵedwa m'malo mwa kukulitsa chikondi ndi pakhomo.
Kubwera kwa mwana woyamba, ndi zosowa ndi zofuna za moyo watsopanowo, nthawizonse kumasonyeza mapeto ku gawo ili mu ubale wa anthu awiriwa.
Sungani Flame Alive
Mukafika pambali pa chiyanjano chanu komwe mumamva kuti mukukhudzidwa, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti musayambe kuyenda:
- Nenani "ndimakukondani" tsiku lililonse
- Tumizani malemba okoma kuti mnzanuyo adziwe kuti mukumuganizira
- Tsatirani zosangalatsa zatsopano kapena masewera pamodzi
- Tengani mtundu wina wa chisangalalo
- Lowani ku maphunziro avina - ndikupita!
- Khalani ndi usana usiku ndi masewera masewera
- Tumizani maluwa ... chifukwa
- Muzigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yosiyana; Kusakhalako kumapangitsa mtima kukula!
- Yesetsani kufufuza mbali ina ya tawuni kamodzi pamwezi
- Konzani mpikisano wokondana wamlungu kumapeto kwa mlungu kapena ngati mutha kutenga nthawi.
Kodi Chimwemwe Chimakhalapo Kwamuyaya?
Ngakhale kuti ena okwatirana amanena kuti ali pachibwenzi chosatha, sizingatheke kuyembekezera kuti izi zichitike. Komabe, uthenga wabwino ndi wakuti ukhoza kubwerera ngati mutatha kudikirira mpaka ana atakhala kunja zaka 20 kapena apo - ndipo mutha kupeza chikondi chonse ndi kuseka, kugonana ndi dzuwa kumabwerera kumoyo wanu.