Kodi muli ndi funso lokonzekera tchuthi la banja? Funsani Suzanne Rowan Kelleher, katswiri wopuma payekha pa About.com.
Funso: Alamu anga awerengetsa banja lathu ku Disney Cruise m'chilimwe. Ngakhale ine ndi mwamuna wanga timayamikira kuti amapereka mowolowa manja, ndikukudandaula kwambiri kuti tibweretse sitima yathu yokwera miyezi 17 mu sitimayo. Mwana uyu akukwera nthawi zonse kuchokera ku chikwama chake, kukwera masitepe, pamwamba pa zinyumba, ndipo kumakhala kovuta pa dontho la chipewa.
Ndamva za akulu akugwera pansi ndipo ndikuwopa kuti nayenso akhoza. Kodi ndiyenera kuda nkhawa? - Sondra C. wochokera ku Bethesda, MD
Suzanne akuti: Tiyeni tiyambire ndi kufufuza kwenikweni. Pamene achikulire akhala akudziwika kuti amagwa pa sitimayi, ndipo nthawi zonse zimakhala nkhani yaikulu pamene zichitika, ndizochitika zosayembekezereka kwambiri. Ndipo chifukwa chake ndizovuta kwambiri kugwa pansi popanda kuchita izo mwadala kapena kukhala wosasamala kwambiri.
Zilonda zazitali pa sitima zambiri zapamtunda ndizitali masentimita 42, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala kovuta kwa kukwera kulikonse kukwera. Pa sitimayi za Disney, pansi pa njanji yamtunda ndizitsulo zazitsulo zothandizidwa ndi pepala la plexiglass yowonekera, kotero palibe kanthu kwa ana aang'ono kuti akwere pamwamba kuti akweze pamwamba pa njanji. Izi ndi zofanana ndi sitima zapamtunda zapamtunda zapamadzi komanso malo ogwiritsira ntchito mapepala otchedwa staterooms ndi verandahs. (Chithunzicho chikuwonetsa mwana wanga ali ndi zaka zisanu akusangalala ndi malingaliro oyambirira m'ma veranda pa Disney Wonder .)
Ngati stateroom yanu ili ndi veranda, chitseko cha khonde ndi khomo lolemera kwambiri ndi loko pafupi ndi pamwamba. Chovala chimenecho chidzakhala chosatheka kwa mwana wanu. Kodi chitseko chiyenera kutsegulidwa, chitseko cha chitseko chimakhala chosagonjetsedwa ndi mwana ndipo chimakhala chovuta kugwira ntchito.
Choopsa chachikulu kwambiri ndi chakuti mipanda ya veranda imakhala ndi mipando-yowona tebulo lapansi ndi mipando iwiri-yomwe mwana wamng'ono angathe, mwina, kukankhira pafupi ndi kunyoza ndi kukwera.
Inde, musamusiye mwana wosayang'aniridwa pa khonde. Mukhozanso kupempha woyang'anira wanu kuchotsa katundu wa veranda monga chisamaliro chapadera.
Ngati mukudandaulabe, yankho losavuta ndilo kusankha kutuluka kunja kwa veranda popanda velanda kapena chimodzimodzi cha staterooms cha mkati mwa Disney ndi chitsimikizo chamatsenga, chomwe chimakupatsani inu nthawi yeniyeni ya zomwe zikuchitika kunja kwa sitimayo.
Mfundo yofunika: Palibe amene ayenera kusiya mwana wamng'ono pakhomo kapena kuthamanga pafupi ndi sitimayo yosayang'aniridwa, koma sindingalole kuti mantha a mwana wanu athamangidwe chifukwa cha kuyendetsa ulendo wanu wautali kwambiri pa banja lanu- Mtsinje woyendetsa msewu ulipo. Ndikukhulupirira kuti nonse mudzakhala ndi nthawi yabwino.
Mukufuna uphungu wa tchuthi? Apa ndi momwe mungamufunse Suzanne funso lanu.
Pitirizani kufika pazomwe mukupita kumalo othawa kwawo, kuthawa, ndi kuchita. Lowani zolemba zanga zaufulu zamabanja lero!